Thoughts on a subway ride home

"you know, there are a lot of really little things that you can do to make her happy and to not have her on your back as much"

"yeah, but what if those things don't make ME happy?"

- Talking to a friend in the program about significant others

If making the other person happy doesn't make you happy...is there something the matter?

Train rides have become my new airplane rides, times of thinking, usually by myself, about whatever is stirring about in my brain

...I'm not sure if this is a good thing.

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